tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2824476215637384474.post3824414281309478167..comments2009-11-05T22:38:37.928-05:00Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602862698828443177noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2824476215637384474.post-88661158695056877722009-11-05T22:38:37.928-05:002009-11-05T22:38:37.928-05:00drwende, you know what, that is a very good explanation!Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602862698828443177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2824476215637384474.post-60581097316060819522009-11-05T16:48:57.879-05:002009-11-05T16:48:57.879-05:00Violet's girlfriend is married to a jailed, deserting, or abusive husband, and Violet is sending assistance until such time as she can ditch the lout and remarry. She may originally have been introduced to him as a widow, thus the need for him to understand and honor later. The love and trust is because he's trusting her to ditch the lout rather than to use his money to stick with a loser.drwendehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10583869876969470655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2824476215637384474.post-27203282081215890562009-11-05T16:35:45.848-05:002009-11-05T16:35:45.848-05:00Either of those make as much sense as anything else!Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602862698828443177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2824476215637384474.post-55340101242673662122009-11-05T13:04:57.586-05:002009-11-05T13:04:57.586-05:00I think it sounds like perhaps he's a widower, unconvinced about remarriage. Or maybe he perceives something questionable about her character?yogagrrlhttp://yoga-grrl.comnoreply@blogger.com